Don't cheat love.

Why do people say they love/claim to be in love with someone they cheat on?

If you say you are in love with someone, and cheat on them doesn't that contradict your "love" for them? How can you say you love someone, and take such actions knowing you it could destroy what you "love"!?

I think if you are not satisfied in your relationship you should express it. Whether you're starved from lack of affection, "intimacy", emotional support, or whatever it is it needs to be addressed...if it's worth it a change should come bringing fulfillment.


There is no excuse for cheating AT ALL! Don't blame it on the alcohol. At no point should you be so intoxicated that you lose consciousness, and lose responsibility for your actions. Can't blame it on sex because like most things sexual pleasure can be taught.

I think when you cheat you not only show lack of loyalty, fidelity, and dedication you damage your partners self-esteem...leaving them to think "what did I do wrong?", "am I not good enough?” etc.

Knowing is only half of the battle. If you truly are dedicated (as you should be) you will put forth the effort to correct an error in your relationship instead of running...& if this problem can't be worked out leave. It's obviously not meant to be.

I've been cheated on once. Yes, McCool was played for a fool, lol...I did feel inadequate, and worthless. I quickly readjusted. I realized I was good enough. It was just a regular game for him.
Cheating won't be tolerated with me. All it takes is one time, and its dead in these streets, b! (Lol)


So find/create satisfaction in your relationship, or leave for the best.